From its traditional significance to choosing your ideal bridal jewellery, save this guide on the iconic Si Dian Jin before you get hitched.
Congratulations, she said yes! Now it’s time to start planning for your big day and everything that comes with it. Brides and grooms-to-be, here’s all you need to know about Si Dian Jin for your wedding and beyond.
Si Dian Jin: A gift of blessings
The phrase translates to ‘four touches of gold’, a gift set comprising four pieces of gold jewellery including a necklace, a ring, a bangle and a pair of earrings. As part of a traditional Chinese custom, this is gifted by the mother of the groom to the bride, as a symbol of the family’s blessings in welcoming the bride as their new daughter-in-law.
The rules of jewellery selection
Traditionally, Si Dian Jin is picked out by the groom’s parents, particularly the mother. Nowadays, however, it’s not uncommon for the selection to be a collaborative process between the bride and the groom’s family. Many modern brides pick out their desired jewellery, making it a gift that they’ll wear beyond their big day.
The age-old tradition of Si Dian Jin gifting warrants four pieces of jewellery made in yellow gold. These can be heirloom creations that are passed down from the previous generation. Alternatively, the bride can choose to keep hers as a future heirloom. Common designs include dragon and phoenix motifs, which are well-loved symbols of prosperity and unity in Chinese culture. Pair these perennial classics with the qun kua (a traditional ceremonial dress) and you’ll be all set for a classic Chinese wedding.
In consideration of wearability and budget, the rules of Si Dian Jin are more flexible in modern times. Some families may opt for contemporary metals like white or rose gold, minimalist designs sans the oriental motifs, or a more streamlined gift set of one or two jewellery items. For the most part, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to picking a design – make it a conversation with your partner and their family to find the best fit for you.
Where to buy Si Dian Jin in Singapore
Make the hunt for the perfect Si Dian Jin a fuss-free process at Goldheart, where you can shop both traditional and contemporary designs with its exquisite collection. Let the experts guide you: book a slot for bridal consultation sessions at Goldheart Bugis Junction (20 to 24 Sep 2024), Goldheart Jem (11 to 15 Oct 2024), or Goldheart Ion Orchard (25 to 29 Oct 2024) for a personalised, curated shopping experience. Psst: each couple will receive a door gift worth over $200!
In the meantime, we’ve got our eye on a few designs. On the hunt for the perfect complements to traditional wedding attire? We’re loving the Flourishing Bloom Gold Si Dian Jin with intricately carved flowers; or the Garden of Love Gold Si Dian Jin with dainty oriental blooms.
For the modern bride, wear your heart on your sleeve with the Enamoured Destiny Gold Si Dian Jin, with exquisite heart motifs that symbolise the beauty of love. If subtle floral statements are up your street, the Zenith Gold Si Dian Jin will make heads turn thanks to geometric statements that resemble blossoming petals.
Love the designs? Shop Goldheart’s collection of luxurious Si Dian Jin today. And if you’re on the hunt for more milestone jewellery (think: engagement rings, proposal rings and wedding bands), this brand has them all. Be sure to book a bridal consultation for expert advice on selecting the perfect jewellery to commemorate your union – from there, all that’s left to do is to enjoy your happily ever after.
This post is in partnership with Goldheart.
