Everything you need to know about what not to do during Ramadan, minus the stress.
It’s almost two weeks since Ramadan commenced in Singapore, and the wider population is roughly aware of what Muslims are not allowed to do during the holy month. But are there any specific things they have to abide by? Is there some sort of Ramadan etiquette guide everyone can refer to during the fasting season? Have no fear, readers, ‘cos we have done the mostest in that department. Here’s a guide on the dos and don’ts during Ramadan, for both Muslims and non-Muslims.
Ramadan etiquette for non-Muslims
1. Eat and drink, but know the drill
Yes, Muslims are fasting, but that doesn’t mean you can’t live your best foodie life. So go ahead and enjoy your breakfast, lunch, and 3pm doughnuts from the nearby bakery. No need to apologise and hide your nosh! In return, don’t mind the growling stomachs and potential bad breath – it’s 14-hour-long hangry mode.
2. Don’t be that person with jokes
Fasting can look… dramatic to non-Muslims. We get it. “Not even water? Really?” Yes, really. So please, no quips about “dieting” and hold off the “I could never go 14 hours without food and water” commentary. Oh, and avoid making remarks like “Have you lost weight?” and “You look thinner”. Leave those intrusive thoughts at the door. Remember, fasting isn’t about weight loss. In fact, more people gain weight during Ramadan!
Another thing to skip? Making fasting into a test of endurance. Saying things like “Isn’t it really hard?” might sound sympathetic, but it can reduce a deeply spiritual practice to a physical challenge. It’s not a survival reality show. It’s a meaningful act of faith. If someone wants to talk about their experience, they will. Otherwise, a simple “I respect what you’re doing” goes much further.
3. Plan thoughtfully
We know you want us to be “part of the action” – and we appreciate it – but ideally, try not to schedule all food office events in the day. Well, unless you don’t mind us just sitting there and staring at you eat. But if you want us to accompany you to get lunch or coffee? Absolutely, we’re up for that! We need that hot girl mental health walk anyway.
One plan we definitely welcome? Going for iftar together in Singapore. Just let us know in advance, and make sure you’ve picked a halal restaurant in Singapore. If you don’t want to stress over it, let us do the planning! We can invite you to our place and get food from halal catering services in Singapore. Easy-peasy.
4. You don’t have to fast
It’s a thoughtful gesture, but you don’t really have to. It’s not like you’re going to hurt our feelings! Can you imagine waking up in the wee hours and trying to decide what to eat for sahur? Exactly. However, if you’re genuinely curious about fasting and want to experience it yourself, we won’t stop you. Just don’t chug down a litre of water before the clock strikes start time.
5. Greetings and wishes are gold
And you don’t have to make it fancy. A simple “have a blessed Ramadan” or “happy Ramadan” goes a long way. Bonus points if you don’t butcher it too badly – shouldn’t be too hard in Singapore with practising Muslims all around.
Ramadan etiquette for Muslims
6. Fast with your mouth… and your mouth
You’re already avoiding food, now skip the drama. Ramadan is basically a month-long, “think before you speak” challenge. That means less gossip, fewer petty arguments, and maybe holding back that spicy voice note. If you’re fasting but still snapping at people because you’re hungry… that’s not the assignment.
7. Guard your eyes, your ears, and your scrolling habits
It’s not just about what goes into your body – it’s also about what goes into your brain. Ask yourself: Is what I’m watching, listening to, or doom-scrolling actually nourishing me? You don’t have to delete every app and disappear into the mountains, but maybe dial back on the chaos. Think of it as a soft reset.
8. Don’t turn into a nocturnal potato
Yes, fasting is tiring. And yes, naps are elite. But Ramadan isn’t meant to be 30 days of surviving until dusk and then hibernating. Stay present, show up for people, do something kind. Muslims are encouraged to read the Quran, reflect, and move their body gently (no hardcore cardio workouts!). Let’s not pretend that staying up till 4am every night and being a zombie by noon is peak productivity. Balance, please.
9. Iftar isn’t the Hunger Games
You’ve waited all day and you’re starving. But that isn’t a free pass to go feral at the table. Break your fast calmly and share food when you can. The holy month has always been about community, not just consumption. Sure, you can enjoy the halal buffet in Singapore. Just maybe not like it personally wronged you.
10. Remember your intention
Not every Ramadan looks the same. Some years, you’re spiritually thriving. Other times, you’re just trying your best. You don’t need to treat it like a spiritual LinkedIn update – we’re not here for flexing. The real etiquette? Keep your intention sincere. Do what you can and improve quietly. Let it be between you and God.
We hope this Ramadan etiquette shines a light on what to do (and not to do) this holy month!
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it rude to eat or drink in front of my fasting friends?
Technically, no. Most Muslims in Singapore will tell you they don't mind! However, out of courtesy:
- Don't be overly "loud" with your food, like describing a juicy burger in vivid detail.
- Don't feel the need to hide in a toilet to eat. That just makes it awkward for everyone. Simply eating normally at your desk or in a food court is perfectly fine.
Should I avoid scheduling lunch meetings?
Don't assume your Muslim colleagues want to sit through a "working lunch" while others are eating. If possible, schedule meetings in the morning when energy levels are higher. Avoid evening meetings, as this is the critical window for breaking fast and evening prayers.
Is it okay to ask, "Why are you not fasting today?"
Don't be nosy! There are many valid reasons a Muslim might not be fasting, such as health issues, pregnancy, or menstruation. Asking can put them in an uncomfortable position where they feel forced to share personal medical details. If you see a Muslim friend eating, just act normal.
Should I order food delivery at 7pm?
Don't expect your food to arrive on time between 6pm and 7.30pm. A large portion of delivery riders are Muslim and will be stopping to break their fast at sunset. Pro tip: Order earlier (before 5.30pm) or after 8pm to be fair to the riders. If your rider arrives right at iftar, a small tip or a bottled drink is a thoughtful gesture.
Can I visit the Geylang Serai or Kampong Gelam bazaars at 7pm?
Don't expect to find a seat or get food quickly at this time. This is peak "breaking fast" hour. It will be incredibly crowded, and most tables will be reserved for those who have been waiting all day to eat. Go at 4pm to beat the crowd or after 8.30pm when the atmosphere is festive, but the initial rush has subsided.
Should I avoid playing loud music?
Don't blast loud music in residential areas or near mosques, especially during the evening terawih prayers. Ramadan is a month of quiet reflection, so keeping the volume down is a sign of respect.
