Tired of living the single life? Switch up your dating game with apps galore! We're talking about matchmaking for modern romantics...
Dating in Singapore is tough – which kind of explains why there are heaps of websites, apps, matchmaking agencies and event organisers to help you find romantic prospects. Can’t get out of your comfort zone? Dating apps may be your answer! Been swiping your heart out to no avail? Take part in a speed dating session or perhaps RSVP to a fun singles’ event at a romantic restaurant. Even if you don’t find The One, you could make a new friend or two – someone to hit all the fancy cocktail bars and trendy rooftop restaurants with.
Best dating apps and websites in Singapore
1. Bumble
Who run the world? Girls! And this female-centric app knows it. Think of Bumble as the less superficial sister of Tinder where women get the upper hand for every match. Women get 24 hours to start a chat and their partner has 24 hours to reply. So you can dodge those obnoxious pick-up lines and make the first move. Just create your profile, upload your best pics, connect to IG or even Spotify, and start meeting new people. You can also start video chats on the app, hide your profile whenever you want to and make use of features like top filters and super swipe to enhance your dating experience.
Bumble, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
2. Coffee Meets Bagel
If you’re over the whole swiping shebang, Coffee Meets Bagel is one of those “intellectual” dating apps that use algorithms to set you with a suitable partner. Matches are based on your preference and personality type, and you get to pass or connect with profiles that come your way each day. This works great for hopeless romantics seeking more meaningful connections, as opposed to Tinder’s casual flings.
Coffee Meets Bagel, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
3. Grindr
Sorry ladies, this is strictly for the boys. Using your phone’s location, this geo-social networking app picks up fellow Grindr males in your area. It’s a good start if you’re looking to come out of the closet and meet folks of the same persuasion. You can filter your search to weed out red flags, chat and share private pics, star your faves (while blocking others) and easily send your location for meet-ups.
Grindr, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
4. Paktor
Singapore’s answer to Tinder, Paktor (which means “dating” in Hokkien) came about when its founder was unceremoniously thrust into the dating world once again and struggled to look for a fuss-free matchmaking service. Swipe according to your preference and check out features like the voice bio function, where you can record a 15-second intro, and the random chat, which lets you strike up a convo with anyone who’s online at the moment.
Paktor, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
5. Tinder
Tinder may be the millennial dating app of the century, but it’s also known for its hook-up culture. One of the first apps to jumpstart the swiping culture, Tinder allows you to dodge matchmaking algorithms by swiping right or left based on someone’s looks and bio. While most guys and gals are straightforward about wanting a hook-up, an actual friendship or love, don’t be disheartened if you get loads of matches but no daytime dates. There are plenty of other fishes in the sea. Or, you can always go all out with premium paid features like unlimited likes, rewind for you to undo your last “like”, and profile boosting to get more attention.
Tinder, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
6. Happn
Fancy someone you bumped into on the street? Or that cutie who takes the same train as you in the morning, but you’re too shy to start a chat with? Using your phone’s GPS to track your location, Happn connects users who have crossed paths. Once you like their profile (secretly) and the attraction is mutual, you’ll both be notified of the match. What sets this apart from other dating options is the FlashNote feature where you can message someone before you get a “crush”.
Happn, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android) | Windows Phone Store
7. Lovoo
Social media addicts will love this matchmaking app when you’re dating in Singapore. Lovoo acts like a spiffy tool that allows users to do live video chats, find singles near you, and look through the flirting gallery to see who has checked you out.
Lovoo, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
8. Lunch Actually
First dates are nerve-wracking, we get it. That’s why Lunch Actually is perfect for time-starved lonely hearts. Its dating consultants and coaches will work with you to create your own tailor-made program for love based on your values, goals and lifestyle. Matches are pre-screened and handpicked, with follow-ups after dates so you know how you’re doing. Plus, everything’s kept confidential for your privacy. You’ll be in good hands as these matchmakers are pros at helping others find love (they’ve been doing it for years now).
Lunch Actually, available online
9. OkCupid
OkCupid is one of the largest international dating sites in the world. The free online platform uses algorithms and formulas to match you up with a prospective partner based on interests and passions. However, you can also pay to upgrade to premium for features like advanced filters. So pop in your profile, set your preferences, sit back and let Cupid work his magic!
OkCupid, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
10. Meetup
You might be familiar with Meetup.com, which is home to interest groups for everything under the sun – and that includes singles. Here, you get the opportunity to mingle in groups for locals, expats, young adults, single parents… you name it, they have it. You can also join groups that cater to different religions, hobbies and age groups. And it’s not limited to dating in Singapore. So if you’re looking for something more specific than swiping on random profiles, hop on to the site to join a group of your fancy.
Meetup, available online
11. LunchClick
Disheartened by the number of catfish duds on other dating apps? The folks behind Lunch Actually have a platform that promises to match you with quality finds. The company’s strict screening process sees the team sifting through a good amount of applicants to ensure that only real, non-creepy and quality singles are allowed in. You only get one match per day, so this one’s for serious daters only. Questionnaires also give you an insight into the other person’s thoughts on important issues like living habits, so you won’t be surprised by any deal-breaking information five dates in. We like how the app’s Love Assistants are on hand to dish out dating advice if you need it. Oh, and you can give post-date feedback to help the team refine your next match, too.
LunchClick, available to download on App Store (iOS) | Google Play (Android)
12. Esync
If you’re fond of personality tests and tend to ask your dates about which Myers-Briggs category they fall into, Esync could be the one for you. Start by taking an in-depth personality test and you’ll receive potential matches based on character compatibility. Next, Esync’s dating consultants will get in touch for a one-on-one session and plan your date (including booking the restaurant!) so you can have a chat IRL. Ready to meet your soulmate?
Esync, available online
13. Bonus: Social Development Network (SDN)
FYI, Singapore’s government is concerned about your love life, too. (And no, this isn’t just for locals; everyone’s welcome!) The SDN compiles singles’ events from accredited dating agencies to encourage more social interaction among those looking for romance, with activities like lunch dates, escape room date nights, craft workshops and rounds of speed dating in Singapore.
Social Development Network, list of events available online
